Everyday
new guys are laying claims to internet dating being the reason they met that
special girl, but you can also find bitter stories of guys who say that they
spent 3 months online only to be disappointed again and again. This may be
because they quit trying to find someone online before they figure out how the
guys who are succeeding at online dating are doing it.
Remember
that the guys with the best profiles, photos, and messages are the guys who
score the most replies and dates. With a little practice you can be one of
those guys instead of one of the bitter and lonely guys who have nothing to
show for their experience, except their unwillingness to try it again. Here are
some tips to help you out.
Be
Selective About Your Picture from Her Point of View: Photos can make or break
you online. If she's sees someone she is not interested in then she will not
even bother to read about you. Instead she will click off and look for another
guy who catches her interest.
Make sure
to pick a picture that you have had great reviews on from friends, Facebook, or
even forums such as Yahoo Answers. If everyone else thinks that the photo of
you is hot then chances are the girls online will too.
Also try to
pick a picture that has something going on besides just you smiling at the
camera. You want your picture to tell a story about you and not just show your
pretty face off. If you have a picture with awesome scenery or an interesting
place that you have been in it then use it. The girls will take the time to
figure out where you were and then relate that to you. For example, if your
background is a plane or cruise ship then the girls will probably associate you
with travel, adventure, and fun.
Mix Up the
Photos Once in a While: You should change your photo every so often using the
same criteria above to decide which photo to use you. This is because different
girls have different tastes, and a girl who is into spending time at a cabin by
the lake will not want a guy who appears to be travelling all the time or too
busy for her liking.
Choose a
wide variety of activities in the background and see which one gets you the
most responses. You can always stick with a picture that seems to be pulling in
a lot of girls until you find that it has lost the audience it once had. The
point is don't stick with a picture if it's not working.
Make Your
Message Stand Out: It's very common to write "Hey, how's it going?"
or something similar when messaging a girl, and because she has probably
received a lot of messages like that yours may not stand out in the bunch. The
best thing you can do if you want to be noticed is to be unique and to stand
out.
Try taking
a look at her profile and commenting on something that may catch her attention.
For instance, if she is fishing in her profile picture then send a message with
the subject line "Fishing for a girl who likes...fishing." While it
may seem kind of cheesy it still will get her attention and make her check out
your profile at least.
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